24 Critical Lessons from Romans 15: Bearing with Weaker Believers, Unity That Worships, and the God of Hope

Two believers can love the same Christ, read the same Bible, and still find each other hard to sit beside. One holds a conviction the other let go of years ago. Both are sure they are being faithful, and both are partly right.

That is the room Paul is writing into, and the lessons from Romans 15 are his answer to it. His answer runs deeper than a truce. He points at Christ, then at the Scriptures, then at his own life, and lets all three do the work.

If you have ever been the one asked to give ground, this chapter will feel personal before it feels helpful.

Brief Summary of Romans 15

Romans 15 continues the argument Paul began in Romans 14 about believers divided over food, drink, and holy days. In the first thirteen verses he tells the stronger Christians to carry the weaker ones instead of pleasing themselves, holds up Christ as the pattern, and stacks four Old Testament quotations to show that Jews and Gentiles praising God together was always the plan.

From verse fourteen the letter turns personal. Paul describes his work among the Gentiles, his ambition to preach where Christ has never been named, his plan to reach Spain by way of Rome, and the relief fund he is carrying to poor believers in Jerusalem. He closes by asking the church to pray for him.

Lesson 1: Your Strength Is a Debt You Owe the Weaker Christian (Romans 15:1)

Romans 15:1: “We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves.” (KJV)

You have probably already decided which one you are. Most people read this verse, hear “the strong,” and assume Paul means them. The dispute Paul has been handling since Romans 14 is over food and holy days, and there he calls one side “weak in the faith.”

On the most natural reading of that, the weak are the believers whose consciences still held them on those matters and the strong are those who felt free. Paul writes to both groups at once, and he puts himself on the strong side: “we then that are strong.”

The word translated “bear” carries the sense of lifting a load rather than putting up with something at a distance. Paul asks the strong to get under the weight, and he calls it something they “ought” to do.

Strength in this verse arrives with a bill attached, which cuts against the way strength usually works in us. Whatever we are strong in, we tend to spend on ourselves. Paul rules that out in the same breath: “and not to please ourselves.”

So the honest question is not whether you are the strong one. You are strong somewhere and weak somewhere else, and both are true this week. Strength that costs the strong person nothing is not yet what Paul is describing.

Lesson 2: Please Your Neighbour for His Good, Not for His Comfort (Romans 15:2)

Romans 15:2: “Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification.” (KJV)

Pleasing people is one of the fastest ways to hurt them. Paul knows it, which is why he fences the command twice in a single sentence. The pleasing is “for his good,” and it aims “to edification,” which means building him up. Neither phrase leaves room for telling a brother what he wants to hear.

That saves this verse from becoming a charter for cowardice. A man who agrees with everyone in the room has usually found a way to avoid cost. The believer Paul describes gives up a freedom because doing so genuinely strengthens somebody, and he says the hard thing for exactly the same reason. Both moves aim at the same place.

Ask yourself which one you are actually doing the next time you soften your position for someone. If the softening builds them, it is obedience. If it protects you from an awkward conversation, call it what it is and stop dressing it up as love.

Lesson 3: Christ Carried Reproach That Was Never His Own (Romans 15:3)

Romans 15:3: “For even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached thee fell on me.” (KJV)

Paul could have proved Christ’s selflessness from a hundred scenes in the Gospels. Instead he reaches for Psalm 69:9, and the choice matters. In that psalm the insults are aimed at God, and they land on the one standing nearest to Him.

Read the line again and notice who the reproaches belonged to. They were owed to the Father. Christ absorbed them. That is what self-denial means in this chapter, and it is heavier than giving up a preference.

It is taking a cost that was never yours to carry, so that somebody else does not carry it. Every believer who has said nothing about a wrong done to them, or shouldered the blame for a mess they did not make, has walked a short distance down that same road.

Every command in the first half of Romans 15 rests on this sentence. Bearing with a weaker believer stops being a chore the moment you see the pattern it copies. The Lord you follow has already done the harder version of what He is asking of you.

Lesson 4: The Old Testament Was Written to Put Hope in You (Romans 15:4)

Romans 15:4: “For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.” (KJV)

Paul has just quoted a psalm written a thousand years before the church existed, and he pauses to explain why he is allowed to. Those older Scriptures were written “for our learning,” which means the reader Paul had in mind when he wrote that includes you.

Watch the chain in the verse. Scripture produces patience and comfort, and patience and comfort produce hope. Hope sits at the end of the line rather than the beginning. That is worth knowing when you open your Bible in a season where nothing is improving, because the verse never promises that reading will lift your mood by the last chapter. It promises endurance, and endurance is what hope grows out of.

This is also why the Old Testament belongs in a Christian’s reading. The history, the psalms, the prophets, and the long genealogies were all filed away for the believer who would need them later.

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Where has your Bible reading become information gathering rather than the steady supply of endurance God intends it to be?

Lesson 5: Unity Is Something You Ask God For, Not Only Something You Try (Romans 15:5)

Romans 15:5: “Now the God of patience and consolation grant you to be likeminded one toward another according to Christ Jesus.” (KJV)

Why does Paul stop commanding and start praying here? He has spent a chapter and a half telling a divided church how to behave, and then he turns and asks God to grant them the very thing he has been demanding. Both belong together. Church unity is worked at, and it is also given.

Notice the standard he sets. Likemindedness comes “according to Christ Jesus,” not according to agreement. Two believers can hold different convictions about a disputed matter and still be of one mind about the Lord who bought them both, and that is the unity Paul asks God to grant. It leaves room for real difference and no room at all for contempt.

There is a kind of church peace that people manufacture by avoiding each other, and it holds until the next disagreement. What Paul asks for comes from God and outlasts the argument. Pray for the person in your church you find hardest to agree with, and ask God for likemindedness with them rather than victory over them.

Lesson 6: The Point of Getting Along Is One Mouth Praising God (Romans 15:6)

Romans 15:6: “That ye may with one mind and one mouth glorify God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (KJV)

Verse 6 states the purpose of verse 5. The likemindedness Paul prays for is a means to something, and a peaceful church is not the finish line. God grants unity so that a room full of different people can say the same thing about Him with one voice.

That reframes what a congregational argument actually costs. When believers cannot get along, the loss is mainly worship, because a church talking over itself cannot praise God with one mouth. Every Sunday that follows an unresolved fight has less praise in it than it should.

It also tells you what to aim at when you are trying to repair something. Getting a relationship back to polite is a low target, and it leaves the real damage in place. The goal is standing beside that person and glorifying the same Father without the memory of the argument sitting between you. Verse 6 will not settle for less than that.

Lesson 7: Welcome People on the Same Terms Christ Welcomed You (Romans 15:7)

Romans 15:7: “Wherefore receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory of God.” (KJV)

You already know the people you find easy to receive, and the ones you tolerate. Most church welcome has conditions written under it in small print. We receive the ones who fit, who hold our convictions, who will not embarrass us in front of visitors.

Paul removes the small print by setting one standard: receive each other the way Christ received you. Think about the terms of that reception for a moment. He did not wait for you to be right about everything.

He received you while your understanding was thin and your habits were still a mess, and He did it “to the glory of God,” which means your welcome of another believer is worship whether or not it feels like it.

This is the summit of the first half of the chapter. Everything from verse 1 has been building toward it. Whose place at your table has been conditional without you ever saying so out loud?

Lesson 8: God Kept a Promise to Israel and Showed Mercy to the Rest of Us (Romans 15:8-9)

Romans 15:8-9: “Now I say that Jesus Christ was a minister of the circumcision for the truth of God, to confirm the promises made unto the fathers: And that the Gentiles might glorify God for his mercy.” (KJV)

Paul gives two different words to two different groups, and the difference repays attention. To Israel, Christ came for “the truth of God,” confirming promises already made. To the Gentiles, He came so they “might glorify God for his mercy.” One group was owed a promise. The other was owed nothing at all.

Both groups are saved the same way and by the same Christ. The two words describe how the promise reached each of them rather than two routes to God. What they show together is a God whose faithfulness and whose kindness are the same character seen from two angles.

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That mattered in a Roman congregation where Jewish believers could point to a covenant history and Gentile believers could point to nothing at all. Both groups were standing on what God had decided to do, which levels the room fast.

If you came to Christ with no religious background and no covenant in your family line, this is your verse. Nothing was owed to you, and you were included anyway.

Lesson 9: Gentiles Praising God Was the Plan Long Before the Church Began (Romans 15:9-12)

Romans 15:9-12: “I will confess to thee among the Gentiles, and sing unto thy name… Rejoice, ye Gentiles, with his people… Praise the Lord, all ye Gentiles… There shall be a root of Jesse, and he that shall rise to reign over the Gentiles; in him shall the Gentiles trust.” (KJV)

Paul does something unusual here. He stacks four Old Testament quotations back to back, drawn from the psalms, from the law of Moses, and from Isaiah 11:10. Four witnesses, and every one of them mentions the nations.

The word that carries the argument is easy to skip. Verse 10 quotes Moses saying “Rejoice, ye Gentiles, with his people,” and the last three words are the ones Paul needed. He is proving that joint praise, two peoples in one room, was written down centuries before it happened.

Paul’s case here is about timing. Praise from the nations was in the plan before there was a church to house it, which is a very different claim from saying God made room later.

The Gentile believers in Rome were being told, in the middle of an argument about food, that Gentiles praising God alongside Israel had been written into Scripture long before either group sat down in that room. It is hard to look down on someone the Bible called for in advance.

Lesson 10: Romans 15:13 Is a Prayer for a Hope You Cannot Manufacture (Romans 15:13)

Romans 15:13: “Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost.” (KJV)

You have probably seen this verse on a wall or a card. Read it as what it actually is: a prayer rather than a promise about your circumstances. Paul prays it over a church he has never met, in the middle of a dispute he cannot personally settle.

Every part of the verse names its source. The joy and peace come “in believing,” which ties them to trust rather than to conditions improving. The abounding comes “through the power of the Holy Ghost,” which puts overflowing hope outside the reach of effort and temperament.

Notice the order too. Filling comes first, and abundance comes after. A believer running on empty is never told to produce hope out of nothing; the God of hope fills, and the overflow follows.

If your hope has thinned out, Paul does not tell you to try harder at hoping. Ask the God of hope to fill you, and keep believing while He does.

Lesson 11: Say What Is Right About People Before You Say What Is Missing (Romans 15:14)

Romans 15:14: “And I myself also am persuaded of you, my brethren, that ye also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, able also to admonish one another.” (KJV)

Correction is easier to receive from someone who has already told you what they see in you. Paul has just spent fifteen chapters instructing a church, some of it uncomfortable, and here he tells them plainly that he thinks well of them. The “nevertheless” comes in the next verse. The affirmation comes first.

There is a second thing in this sentence that many churches have let go of. Paul says these ordinary believers are “able also to admonish one another,” and he leaves the work with them rather than sending them to a leader for it.

Correction between equals is normal Christian life in this verse, and Paul assumes it rather than granting it. The people sitting beside you on Sunday are qualified to tell you the truth, and you are qualified to tell them.

That places a responsibility on you and sets its tone at the same time. If a fellow believer needs a word from you, Paul has already shown you where the conversation starts.

Lesson 12: Bold Words Need Grace Behind Them, Not Rank (Romans 15:15)

Romans 15:15: “Nevertheless, brethren, I have written the more boldly unto you in some sort, as putting you in mind, because of the grace that is given to me of God.” (KJV)

Paul was an apostle. He could have opened this sentence with his credentials, and instead he grounds his boldness in “the grace that is given to me of God.” Whatever right he had to speak hard truth, he traced it back to something handed to him rather than something he had climbed to.

The second half of the sentence is just as instructive. He describes what he is doing as “putting you in mind,” which is the language of reminding. He is calling grown believers back to something they already hold.

That changes the posture of almost every correction you will ever give. You are rarely delivering news. You are returning somebody to what they already believe and have stopped acting on, and people can hear that difference in your first sentence.

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Where has a lack of position kept you silent when a reminder was what love actually required?

Lesson 13: Gospel Work Is Priestly Work and People Are the Offering (Romans 15:16)

Romans 15:16: “That I should be the minister of Jesus Christ to the Gentiles, ministering the gospel of God, that the offering up of the Gentiles might be acceptable, being sanctified by the Holy Ghost.” (KJV)

Think about the last time you told somebody about Christ over a kitchen table. Paul reaches for temple language to describe exactly that kind of work. He is the servant at the altar, the gospel is the service he performs, and the converted Gentiles are the offering laid before God.

Guard the last clause, because it carries the weight. The offering is acceptable “being sanctified by the Holy Ghost.” Paul’s labour did not make anybody acceptable to God. The Spirit did that, and Paul carried the message. An apostle with signs and wonders behind him still had no power to sanctify a single soul.

That cuts two ways for anyone who serves. The work is holier than it feels on a wet Tuesday when nobody responds, because God receives it as an offering brought to Him. And the outcome was never resting on how well you performed it, which is the only reason any of us can keep going back.

Lesson 14: Never Take Credit for What Christ Did Not Do Through You (Romans 15:17-18)

Romans 15:17-18: “I have therefore whereof I may glory through Jesus Christ in those things which pertain to God. For I will not dare to speak of any of those things which Christ hath not wrought by me, to make the Gentiles obedient, by word and deed.” (KJV)

There is a right kind of boasting, and Paul fences it twice before he uses it. His glorying runs “through Jesus Christ” and stays inside “those things which pertain to God.” Then he draws the line that almost nobody quotes.

He holds his report to the things Christ has actually done through him, and he uses the word “dare” for going past that boundary. Read it as a rule for testimony. Paul had real fruit to report, and he still drew a hard line at anything Christ had not done, using the language of fear to describe crossing it.

He also counted “word and deed” together, so his report included how he had lived and not only what he had said. A ministry account that covers the sermons and skips the conduct is half a report by Paul’s standard.

Tell the story of what God has done in your life at its real size, and let the smaller true version stand.

Lesson 15: Go Where No One Else Has Gone, and Leave Another Man’s Foundation Alone (Romans 15:19-20)

Romans 15:19-20: “so that from Jerusalem, and round about unto Illyricum, I have fully preached the gospel of Christ. Yea, so have I strived to preach the gospel, not where Christ was named, lest I should build upon another man’s foundation.” (KJV)

Two things sit side by side in these verses. Paul had worked a region until he could call it finished, from Jerusalem all the way to Illyricum on the Adriatic coast. And his ambition was pointed at ground nobody had touched.

The reason he gives for that ambition is unexpected. He avoided places where Christ was already named “lest I should build upon another man’s foundation.” The reason he gives points at somebody else’s work rather than at his own reach.

Most of us feel the opposite pull. There is comfort in joining something established and credit in being seen where the crowd already is. Paul aimed at the places where results would come late and applause would never come at all.

Both halves of this belong to you, and the second half is the harder one. There is somewhere near you where Christ is not named. There is also somebody near you whose small work is doing fine without your improvements on it.

Lesson 16: Good Work Can Be the Thing That Delays Your Good Plan (Romans 15:22-23)

Romans 15:22-23: “For which cause also I have been much hindered from coming to you. But now having no more place in these parts, and having a great desire these many years to come unto you.” (KJV)

You have prayed about something for years and watched it stay out of reach. Paul knew that. What kept him from Rome was the very preaching he had described in the verses before, work that God had given him in another place entirely.

The text says he had carried “a great desire these many years,” so this was a longing he kept rather than an idea he forgot. He wanted Rome. God had him elsewhere, and the elsewhere was gospel work too, with people in it who needed him as much as Rome did.

Paul never calls the delay a blessing, and the verse does not say he felt settled about it. It only tells you what was happening in the meantime, which is a different comfort from being told the wait is good for you.

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A plan that has sat still for years is not automatically evidence that God has stopped answering you. Some of that stillness is the cost of the obedience He handed you in the meantime, and it counted for something while Rome kept waiting.

Lesson 17: Want the People, Not Only What They Can Give You (Romans 15:24)

Romans 15:24: “I trust to see you in my journey, and to be brought on my way thitherward by you, if first I be somewhat filled with your company.” (KJV)

Paul is asking the Roman church to fund and support a mission to Spain, and in the middle of the request he says something a fundraiser would never write. He wants to be “somewhat filled with your company” first, before any of the practical arrangements are settled.

There is a kind of ministry relationship that treats people as resources with faces attached, and Paul had every reason to slip into it. Rome was the sending base he needed for the western half of his plan, and losing their goodwill would have cost him the plan.

Anyone who has been on the receiving end of that other kind of attention knows the difference at once, and remembers for years which one they were to somebody. A message that only ever arrives when something is needed tells the person receiving it exactly where they stand. Give the people who support you more than a report and an ask, and let them know you actually want their company.

Lesson 18: The Errand God Gives You Comes Before the Dream You Carry (Romans 15:25)

Romans 15:25: “But now I go unto Jerusalem to minister unto the saints.” (KJV)

You are probably carrying something like Spain. There is a work you believe God has for you, and the season you are actually in looks nothing like it. Paul knew the feeling from the inside: one verse mentions Spain, and the next turns east without apology.

He had the western frontier in view and a church in Rome ready to send him, and before any of it he had a delivery to make in Jerusalem. A relief fund for poor believers, carried by hand, in the opposite direction from his ambition.

The word “but” does the work in that sentence. It marks the gap between what he wanted and what he had been given to do, and he does not argue with the gap. He goes east and lets the letter he is writing carry his heart west.

When the errand and the dream are both real and both in front of you, Paul’s order is the errand first. Spain waited its turn.

Lesson 19: Their Giving Was Free and Owed at the Same Time (Romans 15:26-27)

Romans 15:26-27: “For it hath pleased them of Macedonia and Achaia to make a certain contribution for the poor saints which are at Jerusalem. It hath pleased them verily; and their debtors they are.” (KJV)

Paul says two things about the same gift and refuses to choose between them. It “pleased them” to give, and they were “debtors.” The money came out of gladness, and it also settled an account.

His reason is worth following. Gentile believers had received spiritual things through Jewish believers, and Paul concludes that they owed material help in return. Something real had passed to them from that church, and gratitude with nothing attached to it is not what he expects.

Remove either half and the giving goes wrong in a predictable direction. Take away the gladness and it turns into a levy collected from unwilling people. Take away the debt and it turns into a mood you obey on the weeks you feel generous.

Look at who has fed you spiritually over the years, the teachers, the congregation, the believer who kept praying for you when you had stopped, and ask honestly what you owe them.

Lesson 20: Handle Other People’s Giving So Nobody Has to Wonder (Romans 15:28)

Romans 15:28: “When therefore I have performed this, and have sealed to them this fruit, I will come by you into Spain.” (KJV)

Paul delayed a mission to carry a bag of money across the Mediterranean himself. He could have sent it with a trusted messenger and gone west. Instead he built his travel plans around seeing the fund formally handed over, so that the money and the apostle who had gathered it arrived together.

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The chapter records no accusation against Paul, which is part of the point. It does not tell us his reason, but the effect is plain: the question never came up at all, and he paid for that with time he had already promised elsewhere.

Anyone who holds money belonging to other believers is holding something harder to replace than cash.

A treasurer, a small group leader collecting for a family in need, a pastor with a benevolence fund: every one of them is carrying trust as well as funds.

Openness costs something every time. It costs a delay, an extra signature, a second person in the room when the envelope is counted. Paul paid it, and he was an apostle with nothing to prove.

Lesson 21: Be Certain of the Blessing, Not of the Route (Romans 15:29)

Romans 15:29: “And I am sure that, when I come unto you, I shall come in the fulness of the blessing of the gospel of Christ.” (KJV)

How much of your confidence is resting on the plan rather than on God? Paul is sure of one thing in this verse. Notice what it is. He is sure of the blessing he will bring, and he says nothing at all about how he will arrive.

Read Acts alongside this verse and the silence gets loud. Paul was seized in Jerusalem, rescued from a mob by Roman soldiers, held for two years at Caesarea, and finally put on a ship for Italy as a prisoner, and that ship was wrecked on the way.

He reached Rome, and the fulness of the blessing came with him, and none of it looked like the plan in Romans 15. All of that comes from Acts. Romans 15 itself says nothing about the route.

Take the verse as what it is, a man staking his confidence on the one thing that could not be taken from him. Chains could not stop him arriving in the fulness of the blessing of the gospel of Christ. That is a confidence worth transferring your weight onto.

Lesson 22: Ask People to Wrestle Beside You in Prayer (Romans 15:30)

Romans 15:30: “Now I beseech you, brethren, for the Lord Jesus Christ’s sake, and for the love of the Spirit, that ye strive together with me in your prayers to God for me.” (KJV)

When did asking for prayer become a formality? Paul uses the language of a contest here.

The phrase behind “strive together with me” comes from the world of wrestling and struggle, and he is asking a church he has never visited to get into the fight beside him.

He also names what he is appealing to, and his own standing is nowhere in it. He asks “for the Lord Jesus Christ’s sake, and for the love of the Spirit.” The request rests on Christ and on the Spirit’s love, which is ground any believer can be asked to stand on.

An apostle who had seen signs and wonders across half an empire still would not go into Jerusalem without asking a church to strain in prayer behind him. That should adjust how you hear the next person who asks you to pray for them.

Name one person carrying something heavy this week and pray for them the way Paul is asking to be prayed for, as though the outcome depended on it.

Lesson 23: Pray That Your Service Will Be Received, Not Only That You Will Survive (Romans 15:31)

Romans 15:31: “That I may be delivered from them that do not believe in Judaea; and that my service which I have for Jerusalem may be accepted of the saints.” (KJV)

You can do a genuinely good thing, at real cost, and watch it land badly with the very people it was for. Paul asks for two things in this verse, and the second one is startling.

The first request is what anyone would pray walking into hostile territory. The second is that the gift he had spent years collecting “may be accepted of the saints.” He was asking prayer that his own brothers would take his help.

He does not explain why he asks it. The fact that he asks prayer about it suggests he thought refusal was possible, though the text does not say what he feared. Gentile money for a Jewish church, carried by the most argued-over man in the movement, might have been turned away at the door.

His answer was to ask a church to pray about the reception as seriously as they prayed about his safety. That is a better instinct than bracing for the worst or giving up on people who might not want your help.

Lesson 24: In Romans 15 God Names Himself by What a Divided Church Needs (Romans 15:5, 13, 33)

Romans 15:5, 13, 33: “Now the God of patience and consolation… Now the God of hope… Now the God of peace be with you all.” (KJV)

Three times in one chapter Paul stops and names God, and each name lands at a joint in the argument.

At verse 5, where the church is arguing, He is the God of patience and consolation. At verse 13, where hope has thinned, He is the God of hope. At verse 33, as the letter closes, He is the God of peace.

Those three are exactly what a congregation running out of goodwill has run out of. Paul does not tell them to generate patience, hope, and peace between themselves. He points at the God who is already all three and asks Him to be with them.

That is how the chapter answers the problem it opened with. The strong were told to carry the weak, and the whole weight of it settles here, on the character of God rather than on the stamina of the people obeying.

You will run out. He is called by the names of the things you run out of.

Key Themes Behind These Lessons from Romans 15

• Strength exists to be spent on somebody weaker, and Christ set the pattern by absorbing a cost that was not His.
• Unity is both commanded and granted, and its purpose is worship rather than comfort.
• Jew and Gentile praising God together was written into Scripture long before the church existed.
• Hope, joy, and peace come from God through the Spirit, in believing rather than in improving circumstances.
• Honest ministry reports only what Christ has done, handles money openly, and asks other people to pray.

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Conclusion

Paul wrote this chapter to people who could not agree about dinner, and he never once tells them the disagreement does not matter. He tells them what to do with it. Carry each other. Welcome each other on the terms Christ used on you. Praise God with one mouth, and let the argument lose its power in the sound of it.

Then he shows them what that looks like in one man’s life: money delivered by hand, credit refused, plans surrendered, prayer requested from strangers.

There is somebody whose conscience is tighter than yours, or looser, and God has put you in the same church. Be the stronger one for them this week, and ask the God of patience, hope, and peace to be with you both.